This is a really big deal for me. When you don’t refer to me as a woman, it’s yet another reminder that the world doesn’t see me as one. It’s a reminder that I’m different from other women. It’s a reminder of a life I didn’t have and the mistakes I made trying to deal with that. It’s a trigger of all the dysphoria I used to feel, how miserable I used to be, and how much I hated myself. It makes me question how I look and whether or not this was worth it. The next time I look in a mirror, I will spend ten minutes picking apart all my flaws and obsessing over the masculine-looking features of my face and body. I look at the size of my hands, feet, and shoulders. I look at my lack of hips or discernible waist. I look at my hairline. I look at my shape of my brow. I look at my giant nose. I look at my Adam’s apple. I look at my long torso and short, stubby legs. I look at all these things and I pick myself apart. Most of these things, I can’t change and the ones I can change require painful and expensive surgery.
On a good day, a really good day, I can shake this pretty quickly. But most days, these feelings linger for hours. Sometimes they linger for days.
When you misgender me, you don’t care that I may end up crying in the bathroom or curled up in a corner somewhere hating myself. Is it your responsibility to walk on eggshells and coddle my emotions? No. But it is your responsibility to not be a dick to your friend, acquaintance, or coworker. Transition isn’t an instant cure-all, these feelings and vulnerabilities don’t just go away. They are still easily triggered. I may not still think about suicide every day, but it still does happen from time to time.
Pink Guy
Mon, 23 Jan 2017 02:07:02 GMT
Aye B0ss I have da Cancer
Salamander Man
Mon, 23 Jan 2017 02:05:14 GMT
Nnnnyeessssss
soulja boy
Mon, 23 Jan 2017 02:04:29 GMT
listening to migos has made me lose some brain cells. i need a 106 to get a C....
Chin Chin
Mon, 23 Jan 2017 02:04:15 GMT
Ore wa ochinchin ga daisuki nanadyo!
Papa Franku
Mon, 23 Jan 2017 01:53:08 GMT
I only have to get a 54.9% to have a 90%. All hail Chin Chin.
^-^
Mon, 23 Jan 2017 01:42:48 GMT
Catch me ouside, how bout dat?
fuckkkk
Mon, 23 Jan 2017 00:47:12 GMT
i need an 88% on my final to keep my A. Why did I decide to take APUSH
Fuckin trash
Mon, 23 Jan 2017 00:46:01 GMT
Fuck me in the ass i have to actually study for more useless shit ill never use in life YAY
sdafjasfd
Mon, 23 Jan 2017 00:07:42 GMT
Eleague is on rn
:)
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 23:59:54 GMT
Any other GBN people shook that PowerSchool took an hour and a half to actually load?
Kik me
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 23:33:13 GMT
96% ://
i have a feet fetish
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 23:14:44 GMT
i have a feet fetish
Rebecca
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 23:13:11 GMT
i need a 33% to pass my math test bless!
the only black kid in my class
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 23:11:20 GMT
should i shuck and jive for my white masa teacher? i need an a but i dont wanna take the final
Haddaway
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 22:42:21 GMT
What is love?
Chode
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 22:28:44 GMT
Hi i want A
HELP
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 22:21:12 GMT
HELP ME NEED 80%
Anonymous
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 22:07:23 GMT
Good luck to all doing their finals!
succ
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 22:07:00 GMT
so ap finals are tomorrow
RIP
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 22:01:02 GMT
I need a 100% on final to pass Creative Foods
Jihadi Jones
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 21:46:45 GMT
I have a 72 in pre calc 11 but i need an 80. I have 77 in chem and need a 86. I wanna die wish me luck peeps I m studying my ass all night. Good luck to the rest of you!
lest blesst
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 21:46:29 GMT
just thinking about how im going to fail all my finals
ANON
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 21:34:31 GMT
I hate precalc, especially honors it sucks
Send nudes
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 21:33:54 GMT
The only reason I come to this site is to view the comments
Thanks
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 21:26:49 GMT
I really enjoy the comments on this site. The anonymous postings really allow me to see all the great things that are inside your head. I especially love the often discriminatory views. Thank you for telling random people that they don't deserve things.
Daniel
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 21:22:36 GMT
Why are people complaining about the womens march on a math calculating website lmao.
JB
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 21:21:55 GMT
UGGGHHHHHHHHH
I was on vaca and my teacher marked all the assignments I didnt do a 0
and it dropped my mark 25% and I have a 51%
when I hand them in he was like okay
and he upped my mark by 8%
WTTTFFFFFF
HOW HOW HOW
NOW I NEED TO GET 62% ON MY FINAL TO GET TO A 60
I WAS AT A 80
UGGGHHHHHH
I regret going to Cuba
Thanks so much! Guess Im repeating the grade
JackBoy JonJon
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 21:16:09 GMT
Fuck chemistry
Amanda
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 21:03:32 GMT
Hi Roger, so in Algebra 2 I got a B on my first quarter report card, I have a 40.80% so far this quarter & my final ( which I'll probably fail ) is worth 10% of my grade...what will my final grade for this semester be? This class only lasts for one semester and when it's over my 1st & 2nd quarter grades will be averaged together. This semester ends on Friday 1 - 27 - 17. So yeah, thanks.
Roger: I’ll assume that your “B” is actually an 85%. In that case, your current grade should be a 62.9%. If you want to know your overall semester grade (including your final exam), then I’ll need to know what score you’re going to get on the final exam. Also, is the final exam worth 10% of your semester grade? Or is it worth 10% of your quarter grade?
Every third world woman
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 20:37:49 GMT
Why do first world women march for things they already have? Most people couldn't say 99% of your anti government shit, which by the way protects your right to, without getting hauled off to prison. You guys need to realize life isn't perfect and you got it pretty damn good so shut the actual fuck up
Je suis mort
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 20:26:48 GMT
I got a 94% on my final and I had a 96%, but then my French teacher marked a really old project that I forgot about as missing and now I have a C. I have two days to fix this before the semester ends. Thanks Ms.B!
TheHitler27
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 20:22:04 GMT
Rain drop
Drop top
My grades lower than a
Hitler did nothing wrong
billy
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 20:07:38 GMT
well i'm gonna fail...
A Man
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 19:47:06 GMT
Why do women have to march its so fucking useless
Anonymous
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 19:39:11 GMT
Need a 96% to get an A in my Precalc class...
Nickkaaa
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 19:27:11 GMT
Shit have to get a 68%
xX_420_Xx_69_TheLegend27_Xx
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 19:19:41 GMT
Not the popular opinion, but this is the best Hub on the Internet
bad and boujee
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 19:06:21 GMT
Rain Drop
Drop Top
I got to go eat from my crockpot
My grades are so low that they drop dropped
obama
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 18:57:31 GMT
merica is FUCKED
egg
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 18:08:17 GMT
I LOVE EGGS
Hmar
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 18:02:19 GMT
Y'all ready shknow we failing. #gangganggang #21 savage #gaaaaaaaaaaa
Rain Drop, Drop Top
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 18:01:26 GMT
Looks like my math grade is boutta drop drop
He who must not be named
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 17:53:58 GMT
Ugh I hate Harry Potter
future cop
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 16:55:21 GMT
im becoming a cop so wtf am i even studying for
Sup
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 16:44:31 GMT
This is gonna be great the only test I need to study for to keep a 4.0 is english
Dabs McGee
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 16:24:58 GMT
lol y'all retarded as fuck
Emily
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 15:33:04 GMT
I need a 35% on my final to keep my A lol
BDK
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 10:30:38 GMT
LOL AP. whatta joke
bil joey
Sun, 22 Jan 2017 04:18:22 GMT
my exam is worth 30% of my grade and im at a 79 so if i got 100% on my exam what would my final mark be?
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This is a really big deal for me. When you don’t refer to me as a woman, it’s yet another reminder that the world doesn’t see me as one. It’s a reminder that I’m different from other women. It’s a reminder of a life I didn’t have and the mistakes I made trying to deal with that. It’s a trigger of all the dysphoria I used to feel, how miserable I used to be, and how much I hated myself. It makes me question how I look and whether or not this was worth it. The next time I look in a mirror, I will spend ten minutes picking apart all my flaws and obsessing over the masculine-looking features of my face and body. I look at the size of my hands, feet, and shoulders. I look at my lack of hips or discernible waist. I look at my hairline. I look at my shape of my brow. I look at my giant nose. I look at my Adam’s apple. I look at my long torso and short, stubby legs. I look at all these things and I pick myself apart. Most of these things, I can’t change and the ones I can change require painful and expensive surgery.
On a good day, a really good day, I can shake this pretty quickly. But most days, these feelings linger for hours. Sometimes they linger for days.
When you misgender me, you don’t care that I may end up crying in the bathroom or curled up in a corner somewhere hating myself. Is it your responsibility to walk on eggshells and coddle my emotions? No. But it is your responsibility to not be a dick to your friend, acquaintance, or coworker. Transition isn’t an instant cure-all, these feelings and vulnerabilities don’t just go away. They are still easily triggered. I may not still think about suicide every day, but it still does happen from time to time.
Aye B0ss I have da Cancer
Nnnnyeessssss
listening to migos has made me lose some brain cells. i need a 106 to get a C....
Ore wa ochinchin ga daisuki nanadyo!
I only have to get a 54.9% to have a 90%. All hail Chin Chin.
Catch me ouside, how bout dat?
i need an 88% on my final to keep my A. Why did I decide to take APUSH
Fuck me in the ass i have to actually study for more useless shit ill never use in life YAY
Eleague is on rn
Any other GBN people shook that PowerSchool took an hour and a half to actually load?
96% ://
i have a feet fetish
i need a 33% to pass my math test bless!
should i shuck and jive for my white masa teacher? i need an a but i dont wanna take the final
What is love?
Hi i want A
HELP ME NEED 80%
Good luck to all doing their finals!
so ap finals are tomorrow
I need a 100% on final to pass Creative Foods
I have a 72 in pre calc 11 but i need an 80. I have 77 in chem and need a 86. I wanna die wish me luck peeps I m studying my ass all night. Good luck to the rest of you!
just thinking about how im going to fail all my finals
I hate precalc, especially honors it sucks
The only reason I come to this site is to view the comments
I really enjoy the comments on this site. The anonymous postings really allow me to see all the great things that are inside your head. I especially love the often discriminatory views. Thank you for telling random people that they don't deserve things.
Why are people complaining about the womens march on a math calculating website lmao.
UGGGHHHHHHHHH
I was on vaca and my teacher marked all the assignments I didnt do a 0
and it dropped my mark 25% and I have a 51%
when I hand them in he was like okay
and he upped my mark by 8%
WTTTFFFFFF
HOW HOW HOW
NOW I NEED TO GET 62% ON MY FINAL TO GET TO A 60
I WAS AT A 80
UGGGHHHHHH
I regret going to Cuba
Thanks so much! Guess Im repeating the grade
Fuck chemistry
Hi Roger, so in Algebra 2 I got a B on my first quarter report card, I have a 40.80% so far this quarter & my final ( which I'll probably fail ) is worth 10% of my grade...what will my final grade for this semester be? This class only lasts for one semester and when it's over my 1st & 2nd quarter grades will be averaged together. This semester ends on Friday 1 - 27 - 17. So yeah, thanks.
Roger: I’ll assume that your “B” is actually an 85%. In that case, your current grade should be a 62.9%. If you want to know your overall semester grade (including your final exam), then I’ll need to know what score you’re going to get on the final exam. Also, is the final exam worth 10% of your semester grade? Or is it worth 10% of your quarter grade?
Why do first world women march for things they already have? Most people couldn't say 99% of your anti government shit, which by the way protects your right to, without getting hauled off to prison. You guys need to realize life isn't perfect and you got it pretty damn good so shut the actual fuck up
I got a 94% on my final and I had a 96%, but then my French teacher marked a really old project that I forgot about as missing and now I have a C. I have two days to fix this before the semester ends. Thanks Ms.B!
Rain drop
Drop top
My grades lower than a
Hitler did nothing wrong
well i'm gonna fail...
Why do women have to march its so fucking useless
Need a 96% to get an A in my Precalc class...
Shit have to get a 68%
Not the popular opinion, but this is the best Hub on the Internet
Rain Drop
Drop Top
I got to go eat from my crockpot
My grades are so low that they drop dropped
merica is FUCKED
I LOVE EGGS
Y'all ready shknow we failing. #gangganggang #21 savage #gaaaaaaaaaaa
Looks like my math grade is boutta drop drop
Ugh I hate Harry Potter
im becoming a cop so wtf am i even studying for
This is gonna be great the only test I need to study for to keep a 4.0 is english
lol y'all retarded as fuck
I need a 35% on my final to keep my A lol
LOL AP. whatta joke
my exam is worth 30% of my grade and im at a 79 so if i got 100% on my exam what would my final mark be?